So i went and watched HSM 3. That's high school musical 3: Senior Year for those of you who aren't done with the hip new acronym. Call me a fruit cake or a little strange/odd, but i loved the trilogy. I have all three soundtracks and movies. I think they are awesome. I'm not just letting you all know how i like the movies, this blog has a purpose. I have a beef with vanessa hudgens character Gabriella Montez. In all three movies she breaks up with him or leaves him in some way. She always doubts him while he always supports and loves her and it really pisses me off. How come girls never appreciate or even seem to notice everything the guy does?.. I wrote my opinion piece on graciousness by the way.. How come the guy always has to tie up the loose ends and keep the relationship strong, keep the girl held together or confident in his commitment. The girl always looses faith. And I'm gonna go ahead and generalize this one because i have reasonable proof from watching the high school musical trilogy and gabriella's behavior. I think maybe girls seem to typically have lower self-esteem than guys do, so maybe they need that reassurance? Kinda like they are playing a bluff card just to see exactly how much their man will do for them? How far can i woman really push their man in this kinda situation? What if the man really does love his partner and because of the constant break downs calling for the reassurance does exactly what the woman is afraid of- the guy leaving.
Give me some feedback. I'm interested in some stories. EVERYONE has a story like this so please post. girls and guys included. sorry if i'm being sexist in a way cuz i know there are situations where the gender is switched, if we can even say their is an accurate gender stereotype for the insecure partner to begin with that could be switched. Just give me something, anything cuz i feel most of my posts go for the most part uncommented on by the majority of the class. Maybe thats because our class isn't very blog friendly, myself included...Im ranting. Im done
2 comments:
Ok so i totally agree with you on the whole gabriella thing and how she's a complete idiot it pisses me off too! but on the whole thing with the girl always losing faith in the relationship and how the guy always has to be strong.. i agree with you partially. it does seem that most of the time it is the girl that has the doubts in a relationship, i am guilty of that. but in my case i just never know what the guy i am with is thinking! i think that if you are dating somebody exclusively and it's serious then you should be completely open and let them know how you feel. for instance, i am in a relationship with this guy and i am his first girlfriend ever. and i talked to my friend a couple weeks ago about him and our relationship because i don't know if he is just shy or if he doesn't like me anymore or if he really doesn't know what to do in a relationship! i say this because the guy won't even hold my hand when we are watching a movie or something like that. but i guess what i am really trying to say with that is that usually girls just become unsure about things because we know how we feel but the guy never tells us how he feels or what he is thinking, at least with my situation. and for me it is comforting to have that reassurance to know that yes he does like me and everything is working out great.
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